Is it really that difficult to be what you are and to express what you feel.. I sometimes fail to understand the reason that why gradually people have forgotten their real self..
When people try to play too safely in a particular situation or in any relationship then its is the most crucial time for all those who happen to be the victims.
I believe there is a very thin line between 'Diplomacy' and 'being Fake'. It is at the same time difficult to recognize.
Sometimes in order to create a protective shell around us, we develop the tendency of giving diplomatic replies to others and even behave similary. For diplomatic people, the easiest way to move out of a discussion is to give a neutral reply! But tell you what guys, this attitude is IN at most of the workplaces today and even when it comes to relationships.. Today, this is considered as an essential quality needed to sustain in this competitive world.
(Nothing Personal) but I dont agree to this. Not because I am a starightforward person but may be I cant digest the FAKEHOLIC crowd around me.
I think GOD's best gift to all of us is our attitude and character. I think letting people accept us the the way we are is a slightly difficult task but not impossible. At our workplaces I know 'Diplomacy' works, but it should not diffuse into our blood to an extend that we fail to give a 'sensible advice to somewhen'. It should not block our sense of judgement.
I really dont want to create a negative vibe around this but I am purposely writing with a posititve mind.
Guys! Learn to love yourself and be yourself. Learn to stand alone when nobody is there to support you. You seriously dont have to behave like 'THEM' to get successful Life. You will automatically get respect from others if you follow your heart and respect your own identity. No matter how much work hard you put in to be like someone, But the reality still says that you will be a CC (Carbon Carbon) not the (Master Copy).
So just be yourself...!!
I love this...: YOU ARE BORN AN ORIGINAL...DONT DIE A COPY!
