My Room

Today I am really happy to write about something very close to me, “My Room”, about which I had never thought, I would ever write.

Can you believe I have spent almost 20 years in my room. From the days of my bed wetting till the day I felt like a grown up girl, who always made a freaky face looking herself in the big mirror hanging on the wall.

I still remember the entrance of my room, the wooden door, the book shelf and also the cute little moments when mumma used to peep into my room to check whether I was studying or sleeping.

In the left side of my room there was a big table, which I think was “my master mind” as most of the tricky ideas I got when I sat on it.

The most fascinating thing about my room was the large window which opened to our kitchen garden having a huge banyan tree because of which I always felt that the atmosphere of my room changed with every season.

During my summer holidays, I spent most of my time decorating the walls of my room with newspaper cutting giving it a collage effect. I had decorated the other side of my room’s wall with a picture of four chickens, which I made specifically keeping in mind my three sisters to feel their presence always.

The walls of my room were getting spoiled with my creativity. My father usually looked at me with weird expressions when he saw those anti-wall elements like fevicol, oil colours etc being used on the wall.

The most comfortable thing of my room was my bed, set in the middle of the room. And how can I forget those two lizards “black and obnoxious” who were my all time companions.

I have always been a kid who enjoyed watching television a lot. Frankly speaking watching the idiot-box too much makes us a little insane and on top of that my favorite category was ‘horror, crime;. As a result I used to imagine the shadow of banyan tree falling on the walls of my room to some ghostly figure..

I still remember my birthdays, when I used to decorate my room with lots of balloons before my relatives came and I always thought that I decorated it in the most beautiful way than anybody else. I know those were my childhood days but my feelings were really true am still so close to my room more than my house. even today I don’t like sharing my room or its cupboard with anyone, it is not the selfish part of me but I would say that I just share a beautiful relationship with my room though it may sound abstract but is true.,

But truly speaking, I really miss my room. Today I am not in my hometown but those memories are still fresh in my mind. My room is the only witness of all those happy moments spent during my childhood and It has always been a part of my sad and unhappy moments too. I want to relive those moments again. Today I desperately want to go back to my home and be oneself in my room.

Be Original...!!

Is it really that difficult to be what you are and to express what you feel.. I sometimes fail to understand the reason that why gradually people have forgotten their real self..


When people try to play too safely in a particular situation or in any relationship then its is the most crucial time for all those who happen to be the victims.


I believe there is a very thin line between 'Diplomacy' and 'being Fake'. It is at the same time difficult to recognize.


Sometimes in order to create a protective shell around us, we develop the tendency of giving diplomatic replies to others and  even behave similary. For diplomatic people, the easiest way to move out of a discussion is to give a neutral reply! But tell you what guys, this attitude is IN at most of the workplaces today and even when it comes to relationships.. Today, this is considered as an essential quality needed to sustain in this competitive world.

(Nothing Personal) but I dont agree to this. Not because I  am a starightforward person but may be I cant digest the FAKEHOLIC crowd around me.


I think GOD's best gift to all of us is our attitude and character. I think letting people accept us the the way we are is a slightly difficult task but not impossible. At our workplaces I know 'Diplomacy' works, but it should not diffuse into our blood to an extend that we fail to give a 'sensible advice to somewhen'. It should not block our sense of judgement.


I really dont want to create a negative vibe around this but I am purposely writing with a posititve mind.


Guys! Learn to love yourself and be yourself. Learn to stand alone when nobody is there to support you. You seriously dont have to behave like 'THEM' to get successful  Life. You will automatically get respect from others if you follow your heart and respect your own identity. No matter how much work hard you put in to be like someone, But the reality still says that you will be a CC (Carbon Carbon) not the (Master Copy).

So just be yourself...!!


I love this...: YOU ARE BORN AN ORIGINAL...DONT DIE A COPY!

LET URSELF FALL......

 I felt i was falling...no one to control ..no one to hold...i was just falling...the feeling of being relieved of all the stress and tension of ur life at times take u to a trancedental world... you want to take a deep dive in water, despite being a non-swimmer, u feel like experiencing the numbness of being drowned....how about the strange feeling that we experience that we are about to fall from bed while we are sleeping but the very moment eyes are opened..I know this has happened with many of us..the jerk felt cant be expressed still its a magical feeling that echoes inside of what may have happen if i would have fallen from bed....many a times we want to indulge ourself in things that others may forbade us to do...we derive a different pleasure when do such things...like some of my friends attended a marriage where they went uninvited and enjoyed to the limit that they think that was an achivement for them....we think its being crazy but at times let urself fall for things which will surely give you a sort of satisfaction,,,a relief from the mundane affair... try out...let yourself fall...for sure you will cherish such an experience always in your life....Life is very small,,live it to the fullest...Just leave aside the WHAT, WHY, HOW & WHERE of life and live it without giving a damn to what others may think...try it...let urself fall..I am sure it will destress you from atleast some of your worries...:))

Welcome!

I know there is nobody to welcome me on my blog so I thought to take this forward and welcome myself by writing this first stupid blog and introduce myself to all of you..Hi friends! I am garima. Ouch! sounds exciting that i am writing about myself. okay, i should not deviate from the main topic . So friends, I am a fun loving, unpredictable girl. I want so much from life. I know it sounds selfish but its true. I want to do so many things in my life. I feel each day of my life teaches me something new. I think i am not always a winner in things that i do with full passion and perseverance but what keeps me trying is my POSITIVITY! I hate being diplomatic. I love reading & writing no matter how bad i may write but i love to write on any damn topic whether it is an experienece, a suggestion, an abstract,  anything complicated, stupid ..It can be anything but if it gets into my head i will write about it. So friends this my space, my blog where I would express my thoughts and welcome suggestions from all... :)) Happy New Year To All...